Im scared to have sex

Sex was great to begin with, but now I don't want to sleep with my boyfriend. Hand-holding, caressing and kissing bore and intimidate me and sex just scares me. Your healing will start at that "aha! That means any relationship you have is one of discovery. Try to pinpoint the moment and cause of your discomfort during erotic encounters. I start thinking that I will fail to get an erection. Intimacy is about exploration, adventure and most importantly communication.